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Why We Lose Crochet Motivation During the Holidays (and How to Get It Back)

Updated: Nov 8


The holiday season is officially here… which means crocheters everywhere are about to fall into the same trap we fall into every. single. year.

We start thinking about handmade gifts, Pinterest inspiration boards, and how magical it would be to make something special for everyone in our life. And suddenly we have a list of ten projects, an unrealistic timeline, and a sinking feeling in our stomach because—surprise—we’ve forgotten how long crochet actually takes. 😅


Before we know it, December hits and our motivation (aka crojo) is nowhere to be found. Our body hurts, our stress is high, and our WIP pile looks suspiciously like it's about to unionize.



Let’s stop that cycle right now.


Today we’re talking about why we lose crochet motivation during the holidays and, more importantly, how to protect your mental health, physical health, and your time so you can actually enjoy the season.


🎄 Why Holiday Crochet Burnout Happens


Here’s the truth: holiday pressure + crocheting = a dangerous combo.

During this time of year, beginners especially tend to:

  • wildly underestimate project times

  • overcommit to gifts they don’t actually have time to make

  • choose projects that are technically beautiful but mentally draining

  • forget that their hands, wrists, and shoulders are… human


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And when reality hits?


Crojo disappears faster than the last cookie at a holiday party. But burnout isn’t inevitable. You just need a better plan.


✅ 1. Be Realistic… and Kind to Yourself


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Before you pick up your hook and declare you’re making blankets for the entire family tree, take a breath.


Ask yourself: “What can I really  finish without hating crochet by the end of the month?”


This is your permission slip to pick one or two meaningful projects instead of ten. You’ll enjoy the process more, and the person receiving the gift will feel just as loved.


✅ 3. Consider the Person You’re Making For


Let’s be all the way honest here: Not everyone deserves a handmade gift.


If someone won’t appreciate twenty hours of your time stitched into something beautiful, it’s okay to skip them.


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Focus on people who:

  • actually use handmade items

  • love sentimental gifts

  • understand the time and effort involved

  • don’t throw your projects in the washer on HOT and shrink them into doll clothes


Your sanity matters too.


✅ 4. Choose the Right Materials (This Matters More Than You Think)


Two extremely important reminders:


✔ Check for allergies

You do not want to lovingly crochet a gorgeous wool hat for someone who breaks out in hives at the sight of wool. Ask first. It's worth it.

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✔ Stash yarn isn’t always the right yarn

Just because it’s been sitting in your craft room doesn’t mean it’s the right fit.Choose colors, textures, and fibers the recipient will love — not just what’s convenient.

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This small step can completely change how much your gift is appreciated.


✅ 5. Protect Your Hands, Body & Crojo


Holiday crocheting can be physically intense. Hours of stitching can lead to:

  • wrist pain

  • shoulder stiffness

  • neck tension

  • sore hands

  • and that “why does my body hurt more than my feelings?” moment

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Here’s how to protect yourself:


✅ Take breaks every 20–30 minutes

✅ Do quick hand and shoulder stretches

✅ Sit with good posture

✅ And, most importantly, support your arms


One thing that has genuinely helped me crochet longer without pain is the Valari Maker Pillow. It wraps around your body, supports your arms, and stays put thanks to its clasp — no sliding, no readjusting, no drama. If you're planning to crochet a lot of gifts this year, this pillow is honestly a life-saver.


👉 Check out the Valari Pillow here:



✅ 6. Don’t Crochet Alone (Community = Motivation)


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Crocheting by yourself can make burnout hit harder and faster.


That’s why I created The Crochet Club Membership, my membership program where we hang out LIVE on Zoom up to six times a month.


We do:

🧶 crochet-alongs

🎉 games

💬 discussions

✨ challenges

🤝 and the BEST community support


If you want to stay motivated, inspired, and connected this season, I’d love to have you join us.


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👉 Join The Crochet Club Membership here: ENTER CROCHET ROOM | Crochet with Tiffany



Your crochet should bring you joy, not stress. You deserve a holiday season full of creativity, rest, and projects you actually enjoy making.


  • Be realistic.

  • Take breaks.

  • Plan smart.

  • And crochet for people who truly appreciate your time.


And don’t forget — my video with Fast, Easy, and Budget-Friendly Crochet Gift Ideas is coming VERY soon. Make sure you’re subscribed so you don’t miss it.


You’ve got this.


💛And I hope you have the BEST day!






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3 Comments


This is such a great posting.. I unfortunately found out that non of my hard work was as appreciated as I had thought it would be and I now do what I can and purchase things for those that I’m not able to make items for this year. I’ve already purchased my yarn 🧶 the items for this year’s gifting and have started on two of my new WIP’s and starting on a couple more because one of my WIP’s is in the last homeward stretch of competition. Happy Crocheting 🧶 everyone. 🫶🏻🧶🤠

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Thank you for the tips. I made scarves for my husbands family the first year of crochet. Carefully selected patterns and colors that I thought would fit their personalities and found out later that no one appreciated my work. Now I make blankets for babies in the hospital and my feedback has been wonderful. My friend is a nurse in the children's area and says the little ones and the parents really like that someone thought to do this for them. Thank you for all you do to keep giving motivation and great tutorials. Have a wonderful holiday season!

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Jane S.
Jane S.
Nov 08

Right now my crojo is tied to my not so great health and my husband's schedule as I'm his chauffeur. Extremely tired. I have one amugurumi project that is almost down and another one to do for a baby gift early December. Have the hexi cardigan on my list but will wait to start when these 2 are done. So much to do and no energy. ugh. Hoping I revive by end of November.


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